Meditation

What is meditation? 

Meditation is a simple and easy way to help reduce stress and relax. Meditation is a method that has been practiced for thousands of years by many cultures and religions.Originally it was used as an intellectual enlightenment to better understand mystical and sacred forces of life. Now it is generally used as a relaxation and stress reduction method. While doing meditation is produces a state of relaxation that helps you focus your attention and eliminate the busy thoughts that get jumbled in your mind causing you stress. This process helps enhance emotional and physical wellness. 

Is it the same as yoga?

Yoga is considered a type of meditation that focuses of exercises that help with flexibility. 

How do I meditate? 

Ways to meditate can include:

• Guided meditation. Sometimes called guided imagery or visualization, with this method of meditation you form mental images of places or situations you find relaxing. You try to use as many senses as possible, such as smells, sights, sounds and textures. You may be led through this process by a guide or teacher.
• Mantra meditation. In this type of meditation, you silently repeat a calming word, thought or phrase to prevent distracting thoughts.
• Mindfulness meditation. This type of meditation is based on being mindful, or having an increased awareness and acceptance of living in the present moment. You broaden your conscious awareness. You focus on what you experience during meditation, such as the flow of your breath. You can observe your thoughts and emotions but let them pass without judgment.
• Qi gong. This practice generally combines meditation, relaxation, physical movement and breathing exercises to restore and maintain balance. Qi gong (CHEE-gung) is part of traditional Chinese medicine.
• Tai chi. This is a form of gentle Chinese martial arts. In tai chi (TIE-chee), you perform a self-paced series of postures or movements in a slow, graceful manner while practicing deep breathing.
• Transcendental meditation. You use a mantra, such as a word, sound or phrase repeatedly silently, to narrow your conscious awareness and eliminate all thoughts from your mind. You focus exclusively on your mantra to achieve a state of perfect stillness and consciousness.
• Yoga. You perform a series of postures and controlled breathing exercises to promote a more flexible body and a calm mind. As you move through poses that require balance and concentration, you're encouraged to focus less on your busy day and more on the moment. 

 Does it have any health benefits? 

The emotional benefits of meditation include:

• Gaining a new perspective on stressful situations
• Building skills to manage your stress
• Increasing self-awareness
• Focusing on the present
• Reducing negative emotions

Meditation and illness

Meditation also might be useful if you have a medical condition, especially one that may be worsened by stress. While a growing body of scientific research supports the health benefits of meditation, some researchers believe it's not yet possible to draw conclusions about the possible benefits of meditation. 

Some research suggests that meditation may help such conditions as:

• Allergies
• Anxiety disorders
• Asthma
• Binge eating
• Cancer
• Depression
• Fatigue
• Heart disease
• High blood pressure
• Pain
• Sleep problems
• Substance abuse

References:

http://www.mayoclinic.org/healthy-living/stress-management/in-depth/meditation/art-20045858

Google Images 

Yoga and It's Benefits

              If you’re one of the few people who hasn't caught on to the yoga wave, no worries. We hope to give you a small introduction to yoga basics. To begin with, yoga focuses on the physical and spiritual improvement of the mind and body. There are “eight limbs” of yoga that help you reach enlightenment

• The way you behave (Yama): This is about encompassing and advocating the behaviors of non-violence, truthfulness, non-stealing, continence and non-possessiveness.

• Your attitude towards yourself (Niyama): Being clean, content, austerity, studying sacred texts and studying yourself, and surrendering to God.

• Physical pose (Asana): Through freeing our mind and body of stress and tension you are performing asanas. They are done in preparation for meditation to relax and rejuvenate the body.

• Breath control (Pranayama): Controlling and regulating your breath helps to make the connection between your state of mind, nervous system, and level of life energy. 

• Withdrawal of the senses (Pratyahara): This is the process of being aware of yourself, undistracted from the world.

• Concentration (Dharana):  This prepares you for meditation, as you focus on your breathing and nothing else.

• Meditation (Dhyana): This is where people spend most of their time, in meditation. This is a constant, uninterrupted observation without a special focus. The goal is to increase awareness and unify oneself with the universe.

• Enlightenment (Samadhi): This is the most difficult state to achieve. It requires much experience with the eight limbs of yoga. It is said that one experiences unity with the universe, infinite peace, harmony, and awareness.

Benefits of yoga:

• Lessons chronic pain (lower back, arthritis, headaches, carpal tunnel syndrome)
• Lowers blood pressure
• Reduces insomnia
• Increased flexibility
• Increased muscle strength and tone
• Improved respiration, energy and vitality
• Maintenance of balanced metabolism
• Weight reduction
• Cardio and circulatory health
• Improved athletic performance
• Protection from injury
• Stress management
• Improved mental well-being

Yoga moves for the beginner:

• Seated Forward Bend
• Seated Straddle
• Downward Dog
• Downward Dog Split
• High Lunges
• Planks
• Side Planks
• Camel Pose

http://www.osteopathic.org/osteopathic-health/about-your-health/health-conditions-library/general-health/Pages/yoga.aspx

https://yoga.com/

Love Yourself and Your Body

               February is the month of love, but you don’t have to be in a relationship to enjoy it. Take this time to learn to love yourself,  regardless of your relationship status. With the media bombarding women about their imperfections and what perfect really is, many of us struggle with loving ourselves as we are. Learning to love yourself involves setting goals. Some of these goals could be eating more vegetables, enjoying more fruits, or walking to campus instead of driving. These are all things we have the ability to control that make an impact on your health. Below is a list of ways in which we can love our bodies by Margo Main, a Ph.D. from the University of Santa Clara.

“20 Ways to Love Your Body” by Margo Maine, Ph.D.

Think of your body as the vehicle to your dreams. Honor it. Respect it. Fuel it.

1.         Your body is extraordinary--begin to respect and appreciate it.

2.         Create a list of all the things your body lets you do. Read it and add to it often.
3.         Become aware of what your body can do each day. Remember it is the instrument of your life, not just an ornament.
4.         Create a list of people you admire: people who have contributed to your life, your community, or the world. Consider whether their appearance was important to their success and accomplishments.
5.         Walk with your head held high, supported by pride and confidence in yourself as a person.
6.         Don't let your weight or shape keep you from activities that you enjoy.
7.         Wear comfortable clothes that you like and that feel good to your body.
8.         Count your blessings, not your blemishes.
9.         Think about all the things you could accomplish with the time and energy you currently spend worrying about your body and appearance. Try one!
10.     Be your body's friend and supporter, not its enemy.
11.     Consider this: your skin replaces itself once a month, your stomach lining every five days, your liver every six weeks, and your skeleton every three months.
12.     Every morning when you wake up, thank your body for resting and rejuvenating itself so you can enjoy the day.
13.     Every evening when you go to bed, tell your body how much you appreciate what it has allowed you to do throughout the day.
14.     Find a method of exercise that you enjoy and do it regularly. Don't exercise to lose weight or to fight your body. Do it to make your body healthy and strong and because it makes you feel good.
15.     Think back to a time in your life when you felt good about your body. Tell yourself you can feel like that again, even in this body at this age.
16.     Keep a list of 10 positive things about yourself--without mentioning your appearance. Add to it!
17.     Put a sign on each of your mirrors saying, "I'm beautiful inside and out."
18.     Choose to find the beauty in the world and in yourself.
19.     Start saying to yourself, "Life is too short to waste my time hating my body this way."
20. Eat when you are hungry. Rest when you are tired. Surround yourself with people that remind you of your inner strength and beauty.

Sources:

http://www.scu.edu/wellness/topics/bodyimage/bodyimagelovebody.cfm

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_3agBWqGfRo

Postpartum Depression

Most of the time, the emotions experienced after childbirth include excitement, joy, fear and anxiety.  On some occasions, women will experience the “baby blues” which can insist of mood swings and crying spells.  On a rare occasion, this can be a more serious condition known as postpartum depression, a form of depression.  This will occur in 10-15% of all new mothers.

How do you know if you’re experiencing merely the baby blues or the more serious postpartum depression?  Here are differences in symptoms according to the Mayo Clinic.

Baby Blues: Mood swings, anxiety, sadness, irritability, crying, decreased concentration and trouble sleeping

Postpartum Depression: (symptoms may start out the same as the baby blues but then may increase) Loss of appetite, insomnia, intense irritability and anger, overwhelming fatigue, loss of interest in sexual intimacy, lack of joy in life, severe mood swings, feeling of shame, guilt or inadequacy, difficulty bonding with baby, withdrawl from friends and family, thoughts of harming self or baby

If left untreated, postpartum depression can last for months or even years.

Postpartum depression can be caused by physical, emotional, or lifestyle factors such as a drop in hormones, lack of sleep, exhaustion, or difficulty breastfeeding.

If your symptoms don’t fade after two weeks, get worse, make it hard for you to care for your baby, make it hard to complete everyday tasks or you have thoughts of harming yourself or your baby, then you should set up an appointment to speak with your provider and get help.

The Gospel Perspective

Managing Postpartum Depression: A Gospel Perspective

For Peace at Home- Richard G. Scott

Sources:

U.S. Department of Health and Human Services, Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. (2008). Prevalence of self-reported postpartum depressive symptoms --- 17 states, 2004--2005 (57(14);361-366). Retrieved from website: http://www.cdc.gov/mmwr/preview/mmwrhtml/mm5714a1.htm

Mayo Clinic Staff. (2012, September 11). Postpartum depression. Retrieved from http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/postpartum-depression/DS00546/DSECTION=symptoms

Pictures: http://yoganjourneytolife.blogspot.com/2013/09/reviewing-over-my-history-with-my-mom.html

Dealing With Infertility

According to the Mayo Clinic, 10-15% of couples experience infertility.  Thankfully, after treatment, about 2/3 of those couples are able to get pregnant.  Infertility is defined as not being able to get pregnant despite having frequent, unprotected sex for at least a year for most people and six months in certain circumstances. 

There are many causes of infertility.  In approximately 1/3 of cases it is traced back to the woman, 1/3 of cases it is traced back to the man and 1/3 of the cases are due to both partners or the cause is unknown. 

The most common cause of infertility in women is a failure to ovulate.  A few causes of this are Polycystic Ovary Syndrome, where there is a hormone imbalance, and Functional Hypothalamic Amenorrhea, where excessive physical or emotional stress result in the loss of a period.  Besides these, it can also come from obesity and/ or weight gain, an ovarian tumor or cyst, weight loss including eating disorders and use of alcohol, tobacco and other drugs (including caffeine). 

In men, infertility is usually caused by a low sperm count or abnormal sperm development.  A specialist would look at the number of sperm, their motility and shape to determine if this is the cause.  These abnormalities can be caused by overheating of the testicles, unhealthy habits such as drugs and alcohol or medical conditions such as diabetes, cystic fibrosis, trauma or treatments like chemotherapy or radiation. 

There are numerous treatments available for people struggling with infertility.  Women can have ovulation stimulated with fertility drugs, have surgery, or do intrauterine insemination where healthy sperm are placed directly into the uterus.  Infertility in men can be addressed through medication or behavioral changes and surgery or hormones.  Couples may also choose to have a procedure such as in vitro fertilization which combines the sperm and egg in a lab and then implants the embryos into the uterus.  This method is only effective in 40% of the cases of women younger than 35 years of age and declines as the woman becomes older.

Coping with infertility can be difficult, especially when the cause is unknown.  The Mayo Clinic recommends a few steps you can take to prepare yourself for the journey ahead.  First be prepared by asking your doctor a lot of questions.  Next, set limits on what is appropriate and financially acceptable to you and your spouse.  Infertility is deeply emotional so knowing what you will and will not do before asked the question will save you much time and uncertainty.  

You will also want to consider other options if you are not able to become pregnant, such as adoption.  Finally, look for support from friends, family and support groups or counseling services.  Because infertility is so personal, many are unaware of how many struggle with it.  Linking yourself with others in your situation will be a great blessing. 

The church has many talks and personal stories linked to their website regarding infertility.  The following link will take you to stories of couples dealing with infertility as well as numerous talks by General Authorities and others on how to make it through this time in your life.

http://www.lds.org/ensign/2011/04/faith-and-infertility-expanded?lang=eng

Another website geared specifically towards LDS couples dealing with infertility is: www.ldsinfertility.org 

There are many resources out there to help if you struggle with infertility.  Don’t hesitate to reach out to these sources or to talk to your doctor if you think something may be wrong.

Sources:

Infertility. (2013, September 18). Retrieved from http://www.nlm.nih.gov/medlineplus/infertility.html

Infertility fact sheet. (2012, July 16). Retrieved from http://www.womenshealth.gov/publications/our-publications/fact-sheet/infertility.html

Mayo Clinic Staff. (2013, July 19). Infertility. Retrieved from http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/infertility/DS00310

Nazario, B. (2011, July 28). Understanding ovulation and fertility: Facts to help you get pregnant. Retrieved from http://www.webmd.com/baby/ss/slideshow-understanding-fertility-ovulation 
Pictures:
http://www.atlantainfertility.com/
http://9images.blogspot.com/2013/03/sad-hug-couple-back-cute.html

Coping with Change and Life Transitions

Change can be one of the most terrifying things in life. Whether it’s expected or out-of-the-blue, a natural part of growing up or something out of your control, it can cause us to become stressed, anxious, or even scared. With the end of the semester in just a few weeks, many students are facing major changes and life transitions. Although you may want to fight the future, the best thing you can do is accept and embrace the changes to come – you may find it’s even better than you expected!

Here are some suggestions to help you cope with changes and life transitions.

• Be flexible. By now, most of us have learned that life doesn’t always follow the plan we create for ourselves. Be open to new experiences or ideas. Many times there are options we haven’t even considered.
• Be patient. We can’t expect to get exactly what we want, whether it’s a solution, outcome, or desire, immediately. We need to remember that things take time. Don’t rush things to get your results.
• Be persistent. If something doesn’t work out the first time around, don’t give up! Most of the time, the best things in life are things we have to work for. Even if it’s slow, continue to push through.
• Keep perspective. Look at events or phases in the greater, eternal context. This will help you reduce distraction and anxiety as you are able to see the overall picture.
• Be positive. Life is full of ups and downs! Our ability to have a positive attitude will help us even out these waves and help us live happily during any period of change. Smile, laugh, and have a sense of humor. Remember, “Life is to be enjoyed, not just endured.” (Gordon B. Hinckley)
• Have a purpose. Develop personal goals that you are continually working on. When you have a distinct purpose or vision, this will help you progress and move forward even when things seem out of balance.
• Be healthy. Continue with regular exercise, a nutritious diet, and sleep. These habits will combat stress, depression, and anxiety, and improve our mental and physical health.

Finding Joy in the Journey
President Thomas S. Monson
October 2008 General Conference

“Day by day, minute by minute, second by second we went from where we were to where we are now. The lives of all of us, of course, go through similar alterations and changes. The difference between the changes in my life and the changes in yours is only in the details. Time never stands still; it must steadily march on, and with the marching come the changes.

This is our one and only chance at mortal life—here and now. The longer we live, the greater is our realization that it is brief. Opportunities come, and then they are gone. I believe that among the greatest lessons we are to learn in this short sojourn upon the earth are lessons that help us distinguish between what is important and what is not. I plead with you not to let those most important things pass you by as you plan for that illusive and nonexistent future when you will have time to do all that you want to do. Instead, find joy in the journey—now.”

Sources:
Brenner, Abigail, M.D. "5 Tips to Help You Respond Effectively to Change." 5 Tips to Help You Respond Effectively to Change. Sussex Directories, Inc., 05 July 2011. Web. 09 July 2013. <http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/in-flux/201107/5-tips-help-you-respond-effectively-change>.

Creagan, Edward T., M.D. "Coping with Change: Stop Stressing and Start Adapting." WebMD. WebMD, LLC., 5 May 2010. Web. 9 July 2013. <http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/coping-with-change/MY01307>.

"Dealing with Change." APS Healthcare. APS Healthcare, n.d. Web. 9 July 2013. <http://www.washington.edu/admin/hr/benefits/publications/carelink/tipsheets/dealing-with-change.pdf>.

"I Think I Can" - The Power of Positive Thinking

In the classic children’s story, “The Little Engine That Could,” a small engine pulls a large train over a mountain after repeating the mantra, “I think I can” over and over again and using all his strength to accomplish the task. This story teaches readers, young and old, the importance and power found in positive thinking.

Positive thinking involves being optimistic in both word and thought. It doesn’t mean that we have to ignore the challenges or troubles that come to us. Rather, we approach them with a good attitude and try to make the best of it.

Here are some ways that you can increase your positive thinking:

1. Identify specific areas you want to change. Choose one or two topics that you would like to become more positive about. Once you conquer these areas, you can add a few more.
2. Evaluate your thoughts throughout the day. Catch yourself if you start to become negative and change the direction of your thoughts.
3. Smile and laugh every day. No matter how difficult the task or day may seem there is something to enjoy. The more you can laugh, the less stressed you will feel.
4. Take care of yourself. When you are exercising and eating right, your body and mind will naturally feel better.
5. Seek optimistic friends. We tend to be like the people we surround ourselves with. If you surround yourself with happy, positive people, you will pick up on their attitudes. 
6. Engage in positive self-talk. Instead of saying something negative about how you look or something you did, focus on your successes and progress. Say to yourself, “I think I can” each morning or develop your own power statement to get you going each day.

Benefits of Positive Thinking

Don’t become discouraged if your attitudes don’t change immediately. Just like any other skill, positive thinking takes practice. Overtime though, you will see the benefits in your life.

Research has shown that positive thinking may lead to:

1. An increased lifespan
2. Lower rates of depression
3. Lower levels of distress
4. Greater resistance to the common cold
5. Better psychological and physical well-being
6. Reduced risk of death from cardiovascular disease
7. Better coping skills during hardship and times of stress

Let positive thinking empower your life today! Look for the good and you will find it. Remember the words of President Dieter F. Uchtdorf. He said, "No matter our circumstances, no matter our challenges or trials, there is something in each day to embrace and cherish. There is something in each day that can bring gratitude and joy if only we will see and appreciate it."

Sources:

"Positive Thinking: Reduce Stress by Eliminating Negative Self-talk." Mayo Clinic. Mayo Foundation for Medical Education and Research, 28 May 2011. Web. 09 Apr. 2013. <http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/positive-thinking/SR00009>.

Uchtdorf, Dieter F. "Of Regrets and Resolutions." LDS.org. The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, n.d. Web. 09 Apr. 2013. <http://www.lds.org/general-conference/2012/10/of-regrets-and-resolutions?lang=eng>.

Depression

Information from the National Institute of Mental Health:

What is Depression?
Depression is a common but serious illness.  Everyone occasionally feels sad or down; however, these feelings are usually short-lived and pass within a couple of days. When you have depression, it interferes with daily life and causes pain for both you and those who care about you.

Signs and Symptoms Include:
• Persistent sad, anxious, or "empty" feelings
• Feelings of hopelessness or pessimism
• Feelings of guilt, worthlessness, or helplessness
• Irritability, restlessness
• Loss of interest in activities or hobbies once pleasurable, including sex
• Fatigue and decreased energy
• Difficulty concentrating, remembering details, and making decisions
• Insomnia, early-morning wakefulness, or excessive sleeping
• Overeating, or appetite loss
• Thoughts of suicide, suicide attempts
• Aches or pains, headaches, cramps, or digestive problems that do not ease even with treatment

The severity, frequency, and duration of symptoms vary depending on the individual and his or her particular illness.

To help Your Friend or Loved One:
• Offer emotional support, understanding, patience, and encouragement.
• Talk to him or her, and listen carefully.
• Never dismiss feelings, but point out realities and offer hope.
• Never ignore comments about suicide, and report them to your loved one's therapist or doctor.
• Invite your loved one out for walks, outings and other activities. Keep trying if he or she declines, but don't push him or her to take on too much too soon.
• Provide assistance in getting to the doctor's appointments.
• Remind your loved one that with time and treatment, the depression will lift.

To Help Yourself:
• Do not wait too long to get evaluated or treated. There is research showing the longer one waits, the greater the impairment can be down the road. Try to see a professional as soon as possible.
• Try to be active and exercise. Go to a movie, a ballgame, or another event or activity that you once enjoyed.
• Set realistic goals for yourself.
• Break up large tasks into small ones, set some priorities and do what you can as you can.
• Try to spend time with other people and confide in a trusted friend or relative. Try not to isolate yourself, and let others help you.
• Expect your mood to improve gradually, not immediately. Do not expect to suddenly "snap out of" your depression. Often during treatment for depression, sleep and appetite will begin to improve before your depressed mood lifts.
• Postpone important decisions, such as getting married or divorced or changing jobs, until you feel better. Discuss decisions with others who know you well and have a more objective view of your situation.
• Remember that positive thinking will replace negative thoughts as your depression responds to treatment.
• Continue to educate yourself about depression.

Treatment:
The first step to getting appropriate treatment is to visit a doctor or mental health specialist.

BYU-Idaho Counseling Center-
Hours: 8 am - 5pm Mon - Fri | Phone: 208.496.9370

BYU-Idaho Health Center-
Hours: 8 am - 5pm Mon – Fri (closed Tues. from 2-3 for devotional) | Phone: 208.496.9330

NIMH

LDS Sources to Help and Comfort Women Impacted by Pornography

 Jill C. Manning, PhD, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist stated, “The following three concepts, among many others, have been helpful for women to incorporate into their healing and decision-making process:”

1. Clarify the Motivation. “In many cases, pornography use is more about seeking an escape or mood-altering effect than it is about sex itself. Although pornography use often starts out as a youthful curiosity about sex, in most cases it develops into a way of escaping certain emotions and stressors. Looking at pornography can even be used to self-medicate depression and anxiety and to self-soothe loneliness or poor self-esteem. Understanding this can help cut through the faulty belief that being more sexual with a pornography user will reduce consumption, or that if someone is using pornography, his or her spouse must not be sexually available or attractive. In addition, understanding the non-sexual motivations behind pornography use can help a woman understand that her partner would have likely turned to pornography regardless of whom he married and that his pornography use is not a commentary on her attractiveness (even though it feels like an attack). Erroneous assumptions about the motivations around pornography use not only promote misplaced blame and shame, but also detract from holding the consumer responsible for choosing to deal with life's problems in maladaptive and harmful ways.”

2. Beware of Comparing Reality to Fantasy. “Many women will tell me they feel insecure and intimidated when they compare themselves to the pornography stars their husband lusts after. There are two issues here: (1) the destabilizing hurt caused by a husband's infidelity and (2) the dynamic of comparing oneself to someone who has prostituted herself in a pornographic scene. Let's look at the second part of this assumption. Many women believe they don't measure up to what their husband is neurotically and narcissistically seeking out because they think the porn stars represent a sexual ideal. This is one of the biggest lies pornography invites women to believe. Most pornography stars have histories of sexual abuse, drug use or addiction, mental health problems, failed relationships, cosmetic surgery, and/or sexually transmitted diseases. In short, the only thing that is modeled in pornography is sexual brokenness and spiritual disconnection. Men who recover from a pornography habit also come to this realization and ironically begin to “see” the beauty of their spouse as what they desire and need.”

3. Ignore Comments That Invalidate the Seriousness of This Problem, and Seek Out People Who Understand the Issue. “When a woman takes the risk to share this marital problem with a trusted friend or family member, it is not uncommon for her to encounter statements such as, ‘Boys will be boys,’ ‘All guys are into porn,’ or ‘At least he isn't cheating on you.’ Comments such as these not only demoralize and invalidate, but they also reflect a lack of understanding about the addictive potential this habit has and the impact pornography use has on relationships. Pornography use represents a serious breach of the marital bond and pulls sexual energy away from an intimate relationship. It is important to ignore comments that dismiss or invalidate the seriousness of this issue and to actively seek out the opinions and support of individuals who understand this issue well. As a woman sifts through the constraining and erroneous beliefs that compound the pain associated with a spouse's pornography use, she is better able to make healthy decisions and take steps that will facilitate healing. Although it is troubling to consider that an increasing number of women are facing this issue in their marriage, it is reassuring to know there are also a growing number of resources to support women and families dealing with this issue. With our continued support, the Lighted Candle Society will not only be able to help women get the support they need, but also be able to continue its unique fight against the pornography industry at large.”

For further information and resources regarding the impact of pornography: click here

Managing Life's Stressors

Various tips to help you cope with the stressors in your life:

• Take a time out and take a moment to address the situation

• It is important to focus on your breathing. Is it slow, calm, and deep or fast and agitated? Taking a moment to slow your breathing down can clear your mind and decrease your stress reaction.

• Practice progressive muscle relaxation.

• Consider keeping a stress journal to help you identify the regular stressors in your life and the way you deal with them.

• Get adequate amounts of sleep.

• Exercise on a regular basis.  When we exercise, our bodies release endorphins that create a natural high. Exercise helps regulate sleep, decrease tension, decrease depression, and increase your immune system.

• Make time for you; go out with friends, read a good book, watch a good movie, etc.

• Sometimes, when all else fails, learn to laugh.  Humor can help to lessen the load of any stressor.

• Most importantly, maintain an eternal perspective.  As long as you are striving to do your best, you will receive divine help and strength to accomplish everything that you need to accomplish.

“When our lives turn in an unanticipated and undesirable direction, sometimes we experience stress and anxiety. One of the challenges of this mortal experience is to not allow the stresses and strains of life to get the better of us—to endure the varied seasons of life while remaining positive, even optimistic. Perhaps when difficulties and challenges strike, we should have these hopeful words of Robert Browning etched in our minds: ‘The best is yet to be’”

-Elder L. Tom Perry

“Brothers and sisters, no matter our circumstances, no matter our challenges or trials, there is something in each day to embrace and cherish. There is something in each day that can bring gratitude and joy if only we will see and appreciate it.”

- President Dieter F. Uchtdorf

http://www.lds.org/general-conference/2008/10/let-him-do-it-with-simplicity?lang=eng&query=stress+management

http://www.lds.org/general-conference/2012/10/of-regrets-and-resolutions?lang=eng&query=uchtdorf+conference+october+2012

http://learningdynamicsinc.org/2012/11/10/coping-with-stress/